Amen, that is /not/ called forCash wrote:A poke to the boob deserves the Coup De Groin.
Us however she just knows we are sexually deprived hornballs.
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HEY! I resemble that remark...Kitt wrote: And they're more twice my age than just 10 years older
Yeah, well if you give me $100 US I'll spend it on a hooker.Cash wrote:If you give me $100 US, I'll send you a pic of AE, 32, and CE all together and sharing a beer.
Well that depends. If he was one of the skeevy straight men, he most definitely would have gotten a slap, at the very least. On the other hand, if he was one of the cool, non-mass-homicidal-rapists (all 3 of 'em), I probably would have reacted exactly the same way, with the addition of a blush.Crazy Elf wrote:Yeah yeah yeah, but if he wasn't a gay man you would have slapped him.
TheScamp wrote:Regret no longer! I revoked her jailbait status earlier in the thread.I'd just like to say that I'm repeatedly thudding my head against the desk and deeply regretting your jailbait status.
...ew. Please tell me that he's not the director, did not bribe the director, and is actually a very good actor but just a pervy grosstard in real life.Kitt wrote:Christ on crutches...DAMN YOU ALL AND YOUR LACK OF LETTING ME BE JAILBAIT!
BTW: in the newest show I'm in, I will probably be forced to hang all over a 40-something year old man. Coincidentally, he's the skeevy guy from Seussical. Someone kill me.
{voice class=George Costanza]"I was in the pool!"[/vc]Cash wrote:Kitt:: Sheer coincidence that you're on opposite the perv?
Hey! It was cold out.Instant Cash wrote:So many little men, so little time.
Kitt wrote: Patience: He knows I'm not interested and never will be. He's also not the director and is too poor to bribe him. However, he's a terrible actor and was probably cast because of lack of turnout. And I'm not jailbait, coz apparently, 17 is legal in NY. Which I don't believe. If I can't buy a lighter, I shouldn't be able to fuck freely.
That's because you're looking in the wrong place: my halo isn't on my CHEST, Cash.Cash wrote:Yeah...I *almost* believed you for a second.Patience wrote:*innocent* *halo*
12 if you're married? What? Okay, am I the only one who this strikes as odd?3278 wrote:
- In Iowa, it's 14 if you're less than 5 years apart, 16 if you're more than five years apart, and 12 if you're married.
[homer simpson]I've made my choice.[/homer simpson]Patience wrote:That's because you're looking in the wrong place: my halo isn't on my CHEST, Cash.Cash wrote:Yeah...I *almost* believed you for a second.Patience wrote:*innocent* *halo*
Ew. Ew. EWWW.Kitt wrote:Ok, I'm officially ready to kill this guy Mike, the creepy skeevy Grinch guy who's all like 40 and shit and nasty and skeevy.
HE WATCHES ME CHANGE! And all I wear under my costumes is a bra, panties, and a bodystocking. That's not a lot of clothing. And he just loves to watch me change from the Who costume to the Jungle of Nool costume and back again. I mean, the little girls have noticed and have asked if I know. The ones who are 10. It's disturbing.
Yeah, but won't he just think that she's into him then, and intensify his disgustingness? Think about it: 40-year-old skeevy guys will jump at any chance they think they have.Thorn wrote:I think you should just start tasering him at odd junctures as a matter of policy, then. That's really really uncalled for.
un·bi·ased also un·bi·assed
adj.
Without bias or prejudice; impartial. See Synonyms at fair1.
Just shakes his head.unbiased
adj 1: characterized by a lack of partiality; "a properly indifferent jury"; "an unbiased account of her family problems" [syn: indifferent, unbiassed] 2: without bias [syn: unbiassed]
trans·fer·ence ( P ) Pronunciation Key (trns-fûrns, trnsfr-ns) n.
The act or process of transferring.
The fact of being transferred.
In psychoanalysis, the process by which emotions and desires originally associated with one person, such as a parent or sibling, are unconsciously shifted to another person, especially to the analyst.
*sigh*n 1: (psychoanalysis) the process whereby emotions are passed on or displaced from one person to another; during psychoanalysis the displacement of feelings toward others (usually the parents) is onto the analyst 2: transferring ownership [syn: transfer] 3: the act of transfering something from one form to another; "the transfer of the music from record to tape suppressed much of the background noise" [syn: transfer]
I'm sure I'm so far off too...tease Audio pronunciation of "TEASE" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (tz)
v. teased, teas·ing, teas·es
v. tr.
1. To annoy or pester; vex.
2. To make fun of; mock playfully.
3. To arouse hope, desire, or curiosity in without affording satisfaction.
4.
1. To urge persistently; coax: teasing their mother for more candy.
2. To gain by persistent coaxing: “the New York editor who could tease great books from the unpromising woolly jumble of an author's first draft” (Ian Jack).
3. To deal with or have an effect on as if by teasing.
5. To cut (tissue, for example) into pieces for examination.
6. To disentangle and dress the fibers of (wool, for example).
7. To raise the nap of (cloth) by dressing, as with a fuller's teasel.
8. To ruffle (the hair) by combing from the ends toward the scalp for an airy, full effect.
He didn't say that. He didn't imply it. He implied she's a tease. Because she is.Thorn wrote:So, show me where exactly Kitt said she's been leading this skeezy 4o-year-old on? Or that she at all appreciated the attention she's been receiving from him?
He didn't say that, either. Nor did he imply it.Thorn wrote:Or are you saying that because she's willing to accept attention from some men, whom she considers 'safe', she has no right to say she doesn't like attention from The Skeeze?
It's actually quite natural, particularly in a skeezy old man whom she'll never allow to see her undressing by choice since he's skeezy. Which is, I think you'll find, exactly what Paul was saying in the first place.Thorn wrote:Someone I've got absolutely no interest in whatsoever? That's just fucked up.
/That's/ just fucked up.Thorn wrote:Besides, since when is spying on someone when they're dressing cool? Personally, I'd be creeped out if it was /Caz/ spying on me when I was dressing.
Voyeurism <i>can be</i> a gateway to other forms of sexual predation. Watching people change backstage is only borderline voyeurism - past the border of good taste, but in no way uncommon for men of all ages and skeezyness factors. Crappy. Rude. Not really the same as "peeping tom." Moreover, it's certainly no guarantee of escalation.Thorn wrote:And, someone correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't spying on people sort of a gateway to other forms of sexual predation? Why is it okay for it to happen to Kitt but not okay to happen to other people?
Because she likes to flirt? I'm afraid I'm a bit fuzzy on the line between "flirting" and "teasing", but in my book, showing us all pictures we demanded she post up for us, and then appreciating our approval is not "teasing".3278 wrote:He didn't say that. He didn't imply it. He implied she's a tease. Because she is.Thorn wrote:So, show me where exactly Kitt said she's been leading this skeezy 4o-year-old on? Or that she at all appreciated the attention she's been receiving from him?
I'm sorry, is there another way to read his sarcasm at her being creeped out by this guy? I read it as him saying she's got no right to expect this guy to respect her right to whatever privacy backstage accommodations will offer, because she likes attention from some people. Perhaps Paul would like to speak for himself to explain how it should really be read?3278 wrote:He didn't say that, either. Nor did he imply it.Thorn wrote:Or are you saying that because she's willing to accept attention from some men, whom she considers 'safe', she has no right to say she doesn't like attention from The Skeeze?
So natural means okay? Natural means that she shouldn't be upset by it? I'd allow that the impulse is natural, but him indulging his impulse is not okay, whether she's a "tease", a "flirt" or a "prude".3278 wrote:It's actually quite natural, particularly in a skeezy old man whom she'll never allow to see her undressing by choice since he's skeezy. Which is, I think you'll find, exactly what Paul was saying in the first place.Thorn wrote:Someone I've got absolutely no interest in whatsoever? That's just fucked up.
Riiiight. Because you're the standard by which all things "normal" should be measured? This is me making a little "W" with my thumbs and forefingers.3278 wrote:/That's/ just fucked up.Thorn wrote:Besides, since when is spying on someone when they're dressing cool? Personally, I'd be creeped out if it was /Caz/ spying on me when I was dressing.
I wasn't saying it is a guarantee of escalation. However, considering the views Paul was expressing about sexual predation in the thread about sexual predators just recently, I thought it interesting that he should be so sanguine about a woman he knows being subjected to such behavior.3278 wrote:Voyeurism <i>can be</i> a gateway to other forms of sexual predation. Watching people change backstage is only borderline voyeurism - past the border of good taste, but in no way uncommon for men of all ages and skeezyness factors. Crappy. Rude. Not really the same as "peeping tom." Moreover, it's certainly no guarantee of escalation.Thorn wrote:And, someone correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't spying on people sort of a gateway to other forms of sexual predation? Why is it okay for it to happen to Kitt but not okay to happen to other people?
Yeah. Much like sometimes when someone calls you on your bullshit, Caz comes rushing to your defense. It's what you do for someone you're in love with. And Paul and I are really, really, in love. With sex and everything.Thorn wrote:You know, I told Caz earlier this would happen. I said to him, "You know I'm going to call Paul on his bullshit, and 32's gonna come rushing to his defense like I've kicked his dog." And here you are.
I don't believe I said that she was a tease because she showed us pictures we asked for.Thorn wrote:Because she likes to flirt? I'm afraid I'm a bit fuzzy on the line between "flirting" and "teasing", but in my book, showing us all pictures we demanded she post up for us, and then appreciating our approval is not "teasing".3278 wrote:He didn't say that. He didn't imply it. He implied she's a tease. Because she is.Thorn wrote:So, show me where exactly Kitt said she's been leading this skeezy 4o-year-old on? Or that she at all appreciated the attention she's been receiving from him?
Yes.Thorn wrote:I'm sorry, is there another way to read his sarcasm at her being creeped out by this guy?3278 wrote:He didn't say that, either. Nor did he imply it.Thorn wrote:Or are you saying that because she's willing to accept attention from some men, whom she considers 'safe', she has no right to say she doesn't like attention from The Skeeze?
No, but it can mean "not 'just fucked up.'"Thorn wrote:So natural means okay?3278 wrote:It's actually quite natural, particularly in a skeezy old man whom she'll never allow to see her undressing by choice since he's skeezy. Which is, I think you'll find, exactly what Paul was saying in the first place.Thorn wrote:Someone I've got absolutely no interest in whatsoever? That's just fucked up.
Not at all. I didn't say that. Nor did I imply it.Thorn wrote:Natural means that she shouldn't be upset by it?
Gone straight to "bitch," huh? I wish I knew what your deal was.Thorn wrote:Riiiight. Because you're the standard by which all things "normal" should be measured? This is me making a little "W" with my thumbs and forefingers.3278 wrote:/That's/ just fucked up.Thorn wrote:Besides, since when is spying on someone when they're dressing cool? Personally, I'd be creeped out if it was /Caz/ spying on me when I was dressing.
It's not unawares. The Skeeze is doing it noticeably enough that the 10 year old girls have noticed. Or so we're told, and we certainly have no reason to doubt Kitt's word on this, now do we?Thorn wrote:Being spied on is not my idea of cool. Caz watching with my knowledge, or watching out in the open and I'm just not looking at him to be aware of it? Fine. But hiding someplace so he can watch me unawares (as I assume The Skeeze is doing)? No, not cool, I don't care who's doing it.
She is. It's crappy. And rude. And I wouldn't want some 40-year-old skeeze watching me undress, either. I don't know if I'd be "upset," but I'm older, and a boy, and so it's quite different. That's why, you'll note, I didn't say anything like, "It's not okay for Kitt to be upset by this." Stop reading what you want me to be saying into what I'm actually saying just so that you'll have some reason to get pissy.Thorn wrote:Further, if it's "crappy" and "rude", then how come Kitt's not allowed to be upset by it?
So, if we agree we wouldn't want some 40-year-old skeeze watching either of us undress; we agree that it's crappy and rude of him to do so; you acknowledge that your vantage on the situation is different from Kitt's, and so you didn't say anything like "It's not okay for Kitt to be upset by this," then what exactly are you arguing with me for?3278 wrote: Stop reading what you want me to be saying into what I'm actually saying just so that you'll have some reason to get pissy.